Married!!

Hi everyone, Rowan and I currently in the UK, but my blog has been lacking horribly in updates, so I figured I'd start with something easy and work up from there. For those that don't know Rowan and I recently were married. Here's the full story in the form of a letter I wrote out soon after the event: "Greetings Friends, I have some very exciting and happy news to share, but it will likely come as a big shock, so you might want to sit down. As I think all of you know, I have been dating Rowan for almost 3 years now. During the past year we have seriously been discussing the possibility of getting engaged and hence married. Well, there have been some recent events which have sped up this entire process. I was visiting Rowan's family at the end of June and into the first week of July. On Sunday July 5, at the Calgary airport, heading back to Los Angeles, I was pulled aside to the secondary inspection point when going through US border security in the Calgary airport. After a fairly long wait, I was told I would not be allowed into the US, because I had been there for too many months out of the past year. The problem was that I had been staying in the US more than I had been staying in Canada in the last 12 months. Rowan and I have a very strong and dedicated relationship together. We maintained a "long-distance" relationship for a year when Rowan moved to Los Angeles to do her Ph.D. and I finished up my Master's. Having gone through that, we absolutely did not want to do that again. The very kind border security guard handed me a list of options that would help my case if I wanted to re-enter the US sometime sooner than 6 months from now. Unfortunately, none of these options were helpful or applicable to me. Further complicating matters was an upcoming trip to Austria in August that Rowan is in the midst of planning for her Ph.D. thesis. I am to be her field-assistant for the trip. All of these thoughts, pressures, and complications ran through our minds as Rowan, myself, and her parents sat down to figure out what to do. With surprising ease, it became apparent what the solution would be. We would get married. By being married, I can get a VISA that allows me to stay in the US with Rowan for as long as she is there in school. And so, with very little ado, Rowan and I were married on July 8, 2009 in the presence of her parents, younger sister, and younger sister's boyfriend. It was a time of great joy and happiness, as celebrated the joining of our lives and affirmed our love. There was also a bit of sadness as the situation and circumstances did not allow us to be together with all of our family and friends to celebrate this important event. We hope to find time to visit and rejoice together with all of you as soon as possible. Thankfully, despite the small group gathered, there were 3 cameras recording the event. Rowan and I have selected a number of our favourites, which you can view here. I also have video of the entire ceremony, which I will edit (it runs too long at the beginning and end) and post as well, when I have a moment. Finally, Rowan and I would really like to have a celebration/reception at some later date, when it will work for us and as many others as possible. This would likely happen in Kingston, but as everything has been moving so fast recently, much of this idea is still up in the air and we would appreciate any input on this. With love, Rowan and Jason"